Starting in 1975, Vietnam's "boat people"—desperate families seeking freedom—fled the Communist government and violence in their country any way they could, usually by boat across the South China Sea. Vicky Nguyen and her family were among them. Attacked at sea by pirates before reaching a refugee camp in Malaysia, Vicky's family survived on rations and waited months until they were sponsored to go to America.
But deciding to leave and start a new life in a new country is half the story...figuring out how to be American is the other. Boat Baby is Vicky's memoir of growing up in America with unconventional Vietnamese parents who didn't always know how to bridge the cultural gaps. It's a childhood filled with misadventures and misunderstandings, from almost stabbing the neighborhood racist with a butter knife to getting caught stealing Cosmo in the hope of learning Do You Really Think You Know Everything About Sex?
Vicky's parents approached life with the attitude, "Why not us?" In the face of prejudice, they taught her to be gritty and resilient, skills Vicky used as she combatted stereotyping throughout her career, fending off the question "Aren't you Connie Chung?" to become a leading Asian American journalist on television. She delivers a uniquely transparent account of her life, revealing how she negotiated her salary in a competitive industry, the challenges of starting a family, and the struggle to be a dutiful daughter.
Funny, nostalgic, and poignant, Boat Baby is a testament to the messy glue that bonds a family. In the tradition of We Are Dreamers by Simu Liu and Dear Girls by Ali Wong, Vicky Nguyen offers an optimistic story full of heart that illuminates the promise of what America can be.
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Kirkus
January 15, 2025
The daughter of Vietnamese refugees climbs the long ladder to 30 Rock. Following in the path of colleagues like Connie Chung and Dion Lim, Nguyen offers insight into her experience of growing up Asian American and achieving a high-profile career as a broadcast journalist. She begins with an account of her parents' hair-raising escape from Vietnam in the 1970s, during which she was a babe in arms, followed by an account of her girlhood in California, when the family moved around quite a bit. Following her father's early entrepreneurial successes, the threesome lived in both predominantly Vietnamese areas and ones where minorities were few. Often drawing self-help-style advice from her experience, she offers a few pieces of counsel we have not heard before: "I tell you, cheerleading is underrated as a crash course in social skills." She also shares insights into various aspects of Vietnamese culture: "Berating the survivor for getting hurt in the first place is our language of love." Because her career path has been relatively smooth, the main friction in the memoir comes from her relationship with her father, whose successful years in business were followed by a long period of embarrassing failure and delusion. The book is framed around the decision to move her family, including both parents, from the West Coast to New York for her high-profile job on NBC'sToday show, a tough move for her husband, who had just started his dream job in medicine. Unfortunately, the moment they got there, the pandemic hit, taking the wind out of their sails, and also providing a somewhat awkward and abrupt ending to the book. A letter of gratitude and inspiration addressed to her daughters is included as a coda. An upbeat immigration and career narrative.COPYRIGHT(2025) Kirkus Reviews, ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.
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Booklist
March 1, 2025
This engaging memoir by Nguyen, of Today Show fame, isn't a story of driven ambition or an industry expos�. It is a quietly moving story of evolving family relationships and the importance of love, respect, and support. Nguyen and her parents were ""Boat People,"" leaving Vietnam for America in 1979. With grace and insight, she shares scenes of her striving immigrant parents and her own struggles to assimilate as a kid. Rather than ignore difficult situations, Nguyen tends to downplay them with humor, balance, and honesty, such as the time she fearlessly faced a racist neighborhood bully, armed with just a butter knife. Later, she repudiates unwelcome sexual advances and a largely indifferent HR response. Overcome with emotion, she manages to deliver the news during the pandemic while privately reeling from reports of brutal attacks on Asian elders. She frankly discusses her multiple miscarriages, evolving relationship with her parents, and the dynamics of navigating a two-career marriage. Nguyen traces her career path from indifferent student to crusading cub reporter to award-winning investigative journalist. It's an enjoyable ride.COPYRIGHT(2025) Booklist, ALL RIGHTS RESERVED.
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